tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24786976172555074862024-02-08T07:12:32.920-08:00The story begins....Chetanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14164254201541049311noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2478697617255507486.post-79685542440426270232014-04-21T02:47:00.001-07:002014-04-21T03:09:34.362-07:00 ANTI - PRENEURS<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">There are two pains in the world. </span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Bodoni MT","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Pain Of Hard Work
and Pain Of Regret. </span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I am looking to try the first pain because the latter pain is
really painful. The first one makes you sleep deep in night and the second want
makes your night sleepless. This blog is for all Indians who are looking to do
something different, those who don’t want routine lifestyle. Yes, this for all
who wants to step in into entrepreneurship.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>This blog is about my observation about the mental and meaningless
obstacles faced by Indian middle class youngster who want to create something
of your own, who wants to be an entrepreneur. This time it’s not about funding,
business plan or curiosity. This time it’s the other side of the coin</span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">It’s about
marriage, flat and family</i></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">.</span></i><br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">A </span></i></b><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">year back one of my good friends told me about a product
idea. <span class="font-size-3">I liked the idea and told him I could work with
him on that if he’s willing to seriously build it. His answer was –</span></span><span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-family: "Arial Unicode MS","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> “</span></span><i><span style="font-family: "Arial Unicode MS","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">yaar abhi job nahi chhod sakta, 6 mahine mein
shaadi </span></i><i><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">hai</span></i><span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>[Dude, I can't quit job right now, </span></span><span class="s0a5d59g"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">getting married</span></span><span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> in 6
months]. Okay, get married but why do you want give up on an idea you believe
in? Your girl will understand, won’t she?</span></span></div>
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<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Guess what? Obviously, he never
build it and few months back I saw someone executed exactly that product out
and is quite close to getting funded too! Yeah, my friend’s </span></span><i><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">“</span></i><span class="s0a5d59g"><i><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">happily married</span></i></span><i><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">”</span></i><span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">, at 27!</span></span></div>
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<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">One of my ex girlfriend had started
talking </span></span><span class="s0a5d59g"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">about marriage</span></span><span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> barely when we had graduated. I never denied marrying her
but I used to tell her lets first achieve something, I want to do a few </span></span><span class="s0a5d59g"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">things in life</span></span><span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">, be a
successful entrepreneur and all this might take a little time, there’s no point
in getting married quickly and then allocating funds to expenses that could
have been avoided at that age, but no, she wouldn’t listen! Of course, she’s
happily married and I, having failed 2 times in the past, am still
building another startup product! (I hope this post reaches you, lady!)</span></span><br />
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<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Oh! And that concept of getting
your kids married at the </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 115%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">right age,</span></b><span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> guys before 30 and
gals by 26-27 max! I’ve always stressed, there’s nothing called such as a
“right age” – why not just get married when you are ready – 25 or 32 – how does
it matter? I hope you’re not thinking about that old shit about retiring and
then marrying your kids before that actually is the root problem.</span></span></div>
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<span class="font-size-3"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I </span></b></span><span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">observed every family or your parents’ needs approval from another
closed relative to whom they think they are well placed, or know more than them
or highly matured.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They might be your
uncle, aunt, cousins, brother, sister or their spouses. Sometimes, their
suggestion and advices changes your family’s thoughts and uselessly you have to
face mental obstacles and pressure from your family. I am often surprised why
we are so late in accepting new ideas, new thoughts or new career models? </span></span><br />
<br />
<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">It is
only because it is not tested or just because it’s not common among society or
just because it’s not a safe way. I never find the definition of safe way. Our families
don’t like to attempt new things when it comes about our career. Find job, work
for them, underestimate your skills, buy home, get married and produce
children, this is what the only definition of life. </span></span></div>
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<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">What more you want? <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>haa? Want to build home in Jupiter? </span></span></div>
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<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Don’t get surprised if you hear
this from them.</span></span></div>
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<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">One of my close family member told
me to look for a career in “chip designing” back in 2008-09. Recently, I met
him at another family gathering a few months back and he said “</span></span><i><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">tum
chip designing me kuch kyu nahi try karte?</span></i><span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">” [Why don't
you try something in chip designing?] I was like…dude? You are still the same!
Your thoughts are still stuck where they were 4-5 years back.</span></span><br />
<br />
<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> It is very
difficult for Indian middle class family to agree on those things which others
of your age don’t do. They think, if you fail, you are finished. You can’t stop
that kind of thinking. See, it’s their belief, it’s their perception and
belief, perception and behavior can’t change in one day and sometimes never.
Accept this that these are the additional mental obstacles which you will face
or have faced if you belong to 2-tier cities or middle class families.</span></span><br />
<br />
<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> My
purpose for telling you these things is clear. I want you to be proactive and
not reactive on those issues. If your family is not getting your view or point,
it doesn’t mean they don’t love you. It’s their concern and possessiveness. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>These concern and possessiveness might pull you
back mentally and could be harmful at some extent, because your family are not
ready and set to accept your failure at this time but it doesn’t mean you will
get reactive. You learn to manage those issues. You need to learn how to move
ahead and how to achieve what you exactly want while carrying those mental
obstacles.</span></span></div>
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<span class="font-size-3"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">The</span></i></b></span><span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> other fantasy about middle class family people is owning a flat.
I never get this point. I, really don’t. Why do they want their kids to buy a
flat and then spend the rest of his life paying back the loan? Coming from
middle class, we’ve never had loads of money to spend. So the way out always is
to pay probably a 25% or even less initially and then take a loan for 75% for
the next 20-25 years.</span></span><br />
<br />
<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">And is duly supported by our financial
system! Go and try to raise money for your startup and the same money for a
home, you’ll know what I mean!</span></span><br />
<br />
<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">Once you have a loan on your head, which too
a home loan, for not less than 40-50 Lacs, for sure. you wouldn’t be willing to
take a risk, would you? And that tension of repaying that loan. Anyways, there
is very little probability that our kids would stay in that house for long.
They’d go places, do stuff in life and make it big themselves.</span></span><br />
<br />
<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">If you are not dreaming to get a job in MNC, if
you are not choosing a mass career option, then don’t choose traditional
personal planning. Plan your finance what is suitable for your startup. Home,
car, and other so called important stuff will get easy to achieve for you
sooner or later in your life. This is the time to build foundation for your
startup not home. This is the time to run your startup not car and this is the
time to sleep with your projects not with your wife.</span></span><br />
<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> </span></span><br />
<span class="font-size-3"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Stay active. Do
positive. Take action.</span></span><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span><br />
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Chetanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14164254201541049311noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2478697617255507486.post-35102136875279801542013-06-06T02:15:00.002-07:002013-06-06T03:17:01.937-07:00CONGRATULATIONS, YOU FAILED.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I would like to thanks all 378 unique viewers of my last blog. It’s only your
responses and messages through all communication modes which make me motivated
to write another one.</h3>
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<h3>
The speed of my blog is just like the journey of my life. It
always blows over. Yes, I could not able to make my name in the final list of
entrepreneurship program. It went past 4 months, to be more precise 3 months 28
days and 9 hours and I could not able to forget that moment. I was at that time
sitting in the chair with my wide open eyes, open mouth, sitting at the edge of
the chair, waiting and staring hard to that idiot person who was smiling and
announcing the names of the finalist and finally he didn’t call my name. WTF.
The experience of that event is inexpressible for me. Suddenly I realized I
look like a fool and I quickly changed my gesture and expression. I and others
started meeting with one another at the end of the program. I smiled with glued
lips and shake hands with many people and fallaciously to one of the security
official who was standing near one of the exit gate. He started laughing, I
smiled with embarrassment and few others who were standing beside me smiled
too. This is the time when I realized how your <span style="color: red;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><b>thoughts and intentions changed your</b> <b>action</b></i>. </span>That’s exactly what
happened with me. I was feeling desolated and disappointed which brings
incoherent thinking and my intention was to skip away from there and unguent
the lesion of my heart which leads to absurd action. Few leaders came up to the
stage and convince those who are not selected, like me, that it is just a
starting of your journey. Move on. I think true leaders inspire us to be bigger
and do things we are afraid of doing. Those who selected were very happy and
some of them can’t control their happiness. They were really very happy.
Suddenly my eyes stuck to a guy. Damn, he is selected. How it is possible? He
is B.A. in history and completed some stupid correspondence course on
computers. I asked to one to whom he was talking. Is he selected? Yes. He
replied. His idea is unique and giving a great platform to android app
developers. I met with him in previous events of the same program. He is good but
got selected in final is quite emergent for me. Then I saw 2 others who were
selected too and that was completely against my expectation. No, it’s not
jealousy or any complex. These words have no place in my dictionary. I had few
conversation with those three previously. I scored higher in the pitching round
against them. I scored higher in public speaking round too. I went back home
with disappointment. After few days, I checked the official website. I notice
the winner names list and their business plan. I looked at them. All plans are
good, some are excellent but mine was not bad too. On observing those ideas, I
found all ideas are solving bigger problems than what my idea is solving. Those
persons whom I assuming ‘not so smart person’ are giving better solutions to
make the life easy for customers in their niche skills. The same day I learned
the second lesson through the same event that smartness and intelligence is not
about pitching in front of investors, it is not about speaking in public. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: red;"><b>Intelligence is all about ability to solve
problems</b></span>. </i>This spontaneous observation of mine reminded me of my senior
project manager where I was previously working in Kolkata. He said, everyone
have money problem. You have, I have. If you want to make yourself rich, solve
problems. Identifying a problem and creates the opportunity for creating a
solution. He was right. </h3>
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I have decided to move on in my life with holding my dreams.
This was the event through which I realized the exact meaning of sadness,
discouragement and irritation but fortunately so early I realized the
importance of control in my life which is the basic demand of doing something
different and bigger. Believe me It’s not easy, man. It requires discipline,
focus and stubbornness. Yes, stubbornness.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>It’s not comes in a day or in a month at least not for me. It needs
time. It needs instinct. My one of the inner desire is to do something in
education system of our country where<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><b>schools taught students about the importance of control in their
lives</b>.This is one of the principal reason why so many people are feeling
insecure today.We don’t know how to control our lives.This is the big problem
of our society but solution comes with smart, creative and mature thinking.</h3>
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Well, I am still moving and finding opportunity and from
last 3 months 28 days 9 hours and now 20 minutes I have been respecting the
value of time. I have been learning each day. I have been learning life. I have
been learning market. I have been learning finance. I have been learning
business. I have been learning technology. I have been learning India and the
world. I have been learning values and I have been learning to live my life to
the fullest. <b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: red;">The more I learn the more I
realized how much I don’t</span></i><span style="color: red;"> </span></b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: red;"><b>know</b></span> </i>and
it’s a strange feeling. Mmm.. mixed emotions. This opportunity failure gives me
another eye to see those barricades which are not allowing me to move forward.
Few past opportunity failure in the first quarter of my life give me strong
feeling that I was behind the learning curve. I saw people of my age farther
ahead in their life simply because they had taken their education and professional
careers seriously. <b><span style="color: red;">This failure was my</span> <span style="color: red;">realization that I needed to become a
student, to study like I never before.</span></b></h3>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I need
confidence.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I need more confidence than
today. A wise investor said to me:</h2>
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<span style="color: red;"><b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Every Self confident
person is not an entrepreneur but every entrepreneur is a self confident
person.</i></b></span></h3>
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There are two school of thoughts. One said you learn the
most when you fail and other said you learn the most when you succeed. Many
support the first school, some support the second school. One thing is for sure, either way you will learn. </h3>
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By taking view of my speed of writing the personal blog, I
hope next time when I would write, I will express the learning through my
success and not failure.</h3>
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Chetanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14164254201541049311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2478697617255507486.post-30265138127064998772012-12-03T05:31:00.000-08:002012-12-03T05:31:33.502-08:00Minutes Which Counts...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">This is my
third blog in last 5 months. I am rated as slow blogger through my domain
website. They asked me the reason, I told them I am busy working but actually I
don’t have the content. I usually write niche blog for self help. My blog
content comes from what I experienced or learned new things. In the past few
months I met with big executives what I really called them SUPER executives.
They are CEOs, MDs running companies, innovate ideas and make them real. This
is the life time experience for me. I met these successful people on the way of
finding the path of entrepreneurship for me. They acts as speakers, mentors for
us and guide us to step in into entrepreneurship. I called it their concern
towards society. No one can pay them for doing this.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The good
thing about that event in Hotel Hyatt regency is girls are served you….served
drinks..Yes and they served with smile and the evening becomes more unreal for
me when these supermen talk with you one on one.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">My first conversation
is with an Ex-CEO of a multi national IT company. I am holding a glass of
scotch covering with blue cotton napkin. I never loose opportunities like these
especially when it’s free. I recollected some positive energy on me and step
forward to meet him. I think 100, mmmm..no..115. yes, my pulse rate per minute.
He saw me.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Helloooo
young… He said<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Good
evening, Sir. I said.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">You are
future entrepreneur? Isn’t it? He asked.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I chuckled.
I am trying for it.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Good. What’s
your idea? He asked again.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">This is just
like an opportunity for me to deliberate all the good things which I learned
till date. I told him about my idea. What market needs, who is my end consumer,
and how I make my idea ready to use, what is my market anticipation. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">He was listening
to me.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">He said.
Never feel that you are talking to a higher level person. It will break the
level of your idea. ‘<b>What you believe is
your level’</b>. Believe in yourself and your thoughts and don’t leave your
level for anyone. I repeat, for anyone. If you find any difficulty to talk with
higher level person, imagine him in underwear what I did in my early days.
Don’t get me wrong. I am straight. He laughs. He continues, this will helps you
to bring that person to your level and once this is done you can speak to him
as you would to a friend.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I was
listening to him carefully.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I am now
scared, how you are picturing me. He said and laughs again.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Did I say
something wrong? I asked<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Do you think
people take advantage of you?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">No. Not
really. I said in husky voice.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">You know, I
wonder why so many people feel as if they are being used by someone. I think it
is from lack of <b>faith in their fellow workers</b>,
supervisors, their friends and sometime family. If you believe the same that
others are taking advantage of you or that everyone is against you, look
yourself dude. The odds are there is something wrong with you my boy, and if
you know you have some fault it’s time to do something about it.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I did not
get why he is saying all these to me in reply to my business idea. I don’t
think like that I already told him. Actually I am focusing on controlling my
pulse rate to come down at least at 80, but my concern is to look confident and
intelligent in front of him. I put my both hands in the trouser’s pocket, stand
more than straight. Move my head upward and downward with bouted lips (bouted
lips means Angeline jolie kinda lips, in general duck kinda lips. It’s not a
dictionary word) and then look into the person’s eye. I think ‘stare’ is the
right word, stare into that person’s eye. This is my way to keep my nerves down
but it never works. Somehow, I managed.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Yes sir, you
are right, but I believe in others. I said <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">How is my
business idea, sir? Is it works? I asked.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t depend
on the predictions of others. Make your own. You know your business better than
others. Work at it. One must learn by doing the thing; for though you think you
know it, you have no certainty until you try. Without work there can never be success.
Unfortunately, the thing that can help people who are failures, or who suffer
from boredom, laziness, loneliness and what have you, is often the only thing
they won’t try “<b>Work”. </b>So pick a starting point, if you haven’t already done so,
but you have already chosen that is why you are here and then work from there.
Starting is not always easy, it is a hardest part of achieving success. You’ll
need all your energy just for the starting. You know, only a small percentage
of a motor’s powers necessary to run a car, but all its power may be necessary
to start it.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Suddenly, another
superman went to stage and deliberating speech about what investors, Venture
capitalist and Angel investors look into the idea. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Okay young
man, its nice meeting you. See you in market. He said<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We shook
hands. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Thank you
sir, thank you very much. I said.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I really
appreciate the power of scotch when it exceeded above 250 ml in your body, it
really makes you feel that you can do anything. If that mental status would
continue with me for one month I definitely do something extra ordinary. I
started acting like fearless person and that’s the best feeling for me, inexpressible.
Thanks to Johny. I then talked to so many other participants; share each other
ideas and experiences. The party and the event went over. I came back home.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Our sponsor organizations
who are conducting these events organized one on one video conferencing for
mentoring us on skype and provide some reading material to us. It’s a five day
involvement and what I learned in those five days are how to execute your plan,
how to develop team and how to be passionate about your work.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">After
completing reading these five days material and conversation on skype I
realized, smiled and think….<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">THAT’S WHAT
I LEARNED THAT NIGHT IN 10 MINUTES.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Chetanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14164254201541049311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2478697617255507486.post-3309932106609046752012-08-14T06:27:00.000-07:002012-08-14T06:29:03.751-07:00The Philanthropic World<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<o:p><i><span style="color: #990000;"><br /></span></i></o:p></h4>
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<o:p><i><span style="color: #990000;"><br /></span></i></o:p></h4>
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<o:p><i><span style="color: #990000;"> </span></i></o:p><i><span style="color: #990000;">Hahahahahahahha…..Business?? Entrepreneur?? at this age??? You must be kidding. The most
common line for me, I used to hear.</span></i></h4>
<h4>
<i><span style="color: #990000;"><br /></span></i><i><span style="color: #990000;">Business?? Entrepreneur?? at this age?? Good, this is the
right time to decide. Put the paddle on the accelerator .Go ahead. The second
most common line for me, I used to hear.</span></i></h4>
<h4>
<i><span style="color: #990000;"><br /></span></i><i><span style="color: #990000;">Business?? Entrepreneur??
At this age? Hmmm…so, how can I help you. Need any suggestion? Need any
help? The most awaiting line for me,
which I want to hear.</span></i></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;"><br /></span><span style="color: #990000;">This is all leading up to a very helpful point. I generally
dislike the first kind of person. After a certain time, I found that, numbers
of people I dislike are more than number of people I like. I got afraid; there
is something wrong with me. We tend to believe that the entire world revolves
around me. I was thinking all these unusually in my bed room at night, suddenly
my sister called me. Her poem was selected for broadcasting in vidyut bharti
radio channel. She has to go to record 10 minute’s poem in her own voice. I
congratulated her. She insisted me to come with her coz, this is her first time
and she is little bit uncomfortable. As I am busy for nothing kind of person, I
agreed to come with her. We reached
there and waiting for her turn by sitting in the hall Her turn comes up, I and
she went inside the studio. She entered
into the recording room alone, where big mike placed on the centre of the table
and started arranging their pages; I stayed outside with the person aged, about
30, in the technical room where he is adjusting the frequency and volume type
of stuff.<br /> </span><span style="color: #990000;">I asked him. How long
you have been working here?</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;">He replied, I had worked here for 5 years. Now, I work as a
part timer.</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;">Okay, you changed your job?
I asked.</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;">No, I am running my recording studio where I make demo tapes
for aspiring recording artist. He said.</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;">Then, why are you working here? I asked</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;">He said. The company does not want to let me go, they
insisted me to work for them as a part timer, so, I did.</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;">Hmmm. you must be the best. I said.</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;">He smiled, may be or maybe not. Lots of skilled people are working here. So,
it is tough to say that I am the best.
You know, I always think of the client first, this is my first priority.
How I make him or her sound better? And I seriously don’t care if I have to put
extra time and expense to make the person sound better and you know, I am
always fully booked. I work that wayyy. He said, in a stubbornness manner.</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;">I chuckled. I wished him luck for the future.</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;">My sis recorded well, we went out.</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;">I, then, have to rush for the seminar of IT technical
opportunities. I reached there. The main
speaker started his speech and continues till one hour continuously. I reached
back to home. Believe me, no person even move their eye balls during his
speech. Each and every word is still in my mind.</span><span style="color: #990000;"> The way of communicating his
thought to us is more than superb.</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;">Maybe the speaker thinking:</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;">I make sure that people learn something?</span></h4>
<h4>
<span style="color: #990000;"> I make sure that they
are happy?</span></h4>
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<span style="color: #990000;">They talk about me and my system of teaching?</span></h4>
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<span style="color: #990000;">Well, I don’t know but may be.</span></h4>
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<span style="color: #990000;">I have attended so many seminars, professional meetings, and
met few big executives too. I have noticed that these big money men were
egotistical and selfish enough to want to be tops in their field.</span><span style="color: #990000;">I think that’s good. These same men were capable of
generating enthusiastic interest in others too, particularly customers. They
are interested in others business problems and find out how their product will
help them.</span></h4>
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<span style="color: #990000;"><br /> </span><span style="color: #990000;">If an interviewee thinks, I have to help this reporter to
give a good and strong piece of material. Readers must read or watch that content.</span></h4>
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<span style="color: #990000;"><br /> </span><span style="color: #990000;">If a teacher thinks, I have to help students to make them
memorize and make them to learn to do something with their mind then I think he
or she can teach better than any other teacher.</span></h4>
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<span style="color: #990000;">If a musician thinks, I have to create a music which makes
my listener emotional, sentimental, or they starting dancing on the floor. That
musician really Rocks.</span></h4>
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<span style="color: #990000;">If a blogger thinks, I have to help my page viewers by
ensuring that he or she learns something here which makes it worth for them. He
definitely is successful in future.</span></h4>
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<span style="color: #990000;">C’mon. It is not altruistic. It is the way of thinking to
get your work done.</span></h4>
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<span style="color: #990000;">Everyone wants that others get interested in them. Well, I think, it’s easy. Be interested in
others and show them.</span></h4>
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<i><span style="color: #990000;"><br /></span></i><i><span style="color: #990000;">Business?? Entrepreneur?? At this age??</span></i></h4>
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<i><span style="color: #990000;">No..Let me help others to start their businesses.</span></i><o:p><i><span style="color: #990000;"> </span></i></o:p><o:p><i><span style="color: #990000;"> </span></i></o:p><o:p><span style="color: #990000;"> </span></o:p><o:p><span style="color: #990000;"> </span></o:p><span style="color: #990000;"> </span></h4>
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Chetanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14164254201541049311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2478697617255507486.post-36567576821303657202012-08-14T05:50:00.000-07:002012-08-14T06:18:50.927-07:00The CURIOS blog<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I am looking for writing my first blog. I am planning since
last few months but did not able to come in an any idea. Some told me, write
about what you are passionate for, some told me, write something what people
enjoy to read. some told me, write something informative. Some told me,
Internet is huge, there is google ,you know the use of ctrl C and ctrl V then
what’s the problem, go ahead, Dude. Well, every suggestion is good and worthy
except the last one which is, as expected, made by my dear friends.</div>
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A shining morning, temperament of sun was very high, I
guess, around 42…I leave my home for my work place, as usual, with my disturbed facial expression. I reached to
metro station and waiting for my train to come. I was usually choose second car
of the train which is next to first car reserved for ladies, but after certain
time, I realized that no miracle is gonna happen there in the full of rush car.
So, I decided to move my eyes and mind from there and go for the last car of
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I used to see an Old man, nearly about 65, stand tall and
straight on the same last compartment and on the same time matching with my
time, almost daily. After few days, we started giving response to each other by
smiling like smiley, whenever our eyes encountered with each other.</div>
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One day, fortunately, I got a seat and that old person is
sitting next to me.</div>
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“Hello”, he said. “hello sir”, I replied gently.</div>
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What’s your problem…girl???? , he chuckled.</div>
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No sir. I said</div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Then?? , he said.</div>
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Nothing. I am okay. I said.</div>
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okay.. sorry, may be my observation went wrong . He said,</div>
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Not more than 2 minutes silence between us…</div>
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“Direction”, </div>
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I said while staring on his eyes.</div>
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Okayyy..and???</div>
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So many..Direction is the major one. I said in a rough
voice.</div>
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Why you need this??</div>
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I have to establish my own enterprise but I am not able to
find the starting point or so called execution point.</div>
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He said, my father was running a restaurant. He is a Waiter
in his early days. He was interested in the food and its recipe he served, and
wondered why they were priced so high. During his spare time he went about
finding how much the material per dish was worth. He learned what customer
wants and demands when they come to restaurant. He thought about methods to low
down the prices. In short, he learned all he could about the business from his
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It is not a matter of weeks. It covered some months or
years, but when the opportunity to go into the business arrived for him, he was
ready. His ideas on low cost didn’t work but make him a success. He was, then,
started hiring peoples and these people would have the same opportunity he had,
if they would just have the same CURIOSITY.</div>
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</span>I have been seriously listening to him. He continues… Solving problem is
not a difficult task. Finding problem is difficult. Once you know, what they
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I think you find your problem. He said.</div>
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I didn’t get any words. </div>
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Sir, how could you know, I am disturbed or in any problem??
I asked, politely..</div>
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How many switches are there in a switch board of you room??
, He asked to me.</div>
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How many compartments/cars in a metro you are traveling?? He
asked again, without giving me a chance to say something.</div>
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I started recollecting but didn’t get in the definite
number.</div>
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He said, it doesn’t make any sense but it will increase your
observation power and keeps your mind open. See the world with your mind not
with your eyes.</div>
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I don’t know why, but, I started feeling more confident
about myself. His destination reached after ten minutes of our conversation. We
shook our hand. Sir, Its nice meeting you, I said. (This is the first time, I
said this with the inner core of my heart).</div>
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He said, Its your life son, Make It Large. Yes, I will. I
said. But not more than 90 ml and he laughs loudly.</div>
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My day passed out with full of energy. I came back to home,
open my computer and I took hardly 45 minutes to complete my blog contents.</div>
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May be I found, what missing in me.</div>
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